1Determine what type of drug(s) they are sneaking. You can call you're spouse out on it, but the only way to do that is by finding out what kind of drug(s) they are sneaking. You can do this by spying on them, or if you see a prescription bottle, look at the label.
2If it is illegal, you need to confront them. Narcotics and other drugs may be classified as illegal in you're state/country. Narcotics are not illegal if they were prescribed, but many people can become addicted. If you figure out that the drug(s) you're spouse is sneaking is in fact illegal, you need to contact police. It may be hard because you love him/her, but once you know they are sneaking it, the crime is shared with you. The law labels you as an accessory to a crime if you know about it and don't report it.
3If it is not illegal, you still need to confront them. Drugs are drugs, whether they are against the law or not. They change people's lives, and they also ruin lives. You need to make you're spouse aware of you're feelings, and let them know that you do not like them sneaking around.
4If they refuse to stop, there are many measures you can take. You may either chose to legally separate, or you can try and place them in a psychiatric facility. Keep in mind that you are adults, and if you're spouse is not doing illegal drugs, you cannot make them go to treatment. If you chose to separate, remember that it isn't you're fault. You may have children, and no kid should be around that. It may be what is best for you.
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